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Post by Delusional Dragon on Apr 27, 2006 19:26:27 GMT -5
My father, Mathew Chico Perry died Tuesday, April 25, 2006 at 9:30 p.m. in a car crash. He was very dear to me, though we weren't that active in each others lives. I'm in deep mourning, but getting through this, because my other little brother, Shawn survived. Though he is being hospitalized I know he is going to be ok. The funeral will be Sunday.
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Post by Depravedfantasy on Apr 28, 2006 17:51:45 GMT -5
I know that a mere sorry probably woudnt do justice to what your going through, unfortunatly its all I have to offer. We may not be there for you physically but we're always here on the site if you ever need to just talk to somebody. I'm sure any of us would be willing to give up what they're doing to talk to you.
My AIM is crookshankz14
"Death is nothing. I have only slipped into the other room. I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way you always used to. Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. laugh as we always laughtd at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without effort, no trace of shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is unbroken continuinty. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, somewhere very near. just around the corner. All is well."
--- Henry Scott Holland
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Post by Delusional Dragon on Apr 28, 2006 22:10:42 GMT -5
Thank you, it means alot to know that people I know and trust are there for me. Especially when I need it the most, it just shows who is a true friend. And thank you for that quote it was really good, and fit the moment perfectly. It's just 10 after 11, so I've been home for about 30 minutes. I was up at the hospital at 10 this morning to be with my little brother. So I was up there for about a good 12 hours at the least.
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Post by Depravedfantasy on May 1, 2006 17:31:45 GMT -5
It's times like these, when the things you love can be lost, you realize just how attached you are to them and how much they really mean to you. That's really awesome that you stayed up there for 12 hours. Well, that you care about him that much to spend all that time up there. Hope he's gonna be alright.
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Post by Delusional Dragon on May 2, 2006 16:11:41 GMT -5
He came back home Sunday after the funeral. He's doing alot better, he was yelling at the men to plug the PS2 up right in the living room. I got up after laughing and fixed it, they were in awe. So his welcome home party was good. And I'm slowly getting through this.
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Post by Aqua on May 2, 2006 17:03:00 GMT -5
*silent hugs*
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Post by Delusional Dragon on May 4, 2006 19:29:07 GMT -5
*hugs back* Thanks....
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Post by Aqua on May 13, 2006 17:18:14 GMT -5
I know what it feels like to lose someone, but not someone that closely related, like a father or a mother. Just grandparents, although I was really close to them. I lost my grandfather last November really unexpectedly and I know how quickly shock can consume a family after that sort of thing.
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Post by Delusional Dragon on May 25, 2006 17:01:41 GMT -5
I'm much closer to that side of the family now. I never thought I would be this way but I am.
Oh by the way, I have a new AIM, it's twstedillusion17. I added you, so whenever you're on, you won't be entirely bored...lol.
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Post by jackslittlemissy on Sept 3, 2006 21:31:09 GMT -5
hey i know how it feels too. my grandpa died of a stroke really suddenly i stil have yet to get over it. i mean sometimes i see a man that looks like him and i think its him and then i go "oh....he's not here anymore" i am deeply sorry for your loss right now i can barely see teh keys between my tears so i hope this is right i am sososo sorry. *hugs*
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